Comments on: How Am I Doing… Really?

By: Pete

Pete — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 22:42:10 +0000

Jonathan, I guess that means the synaptic pathways are laid, the path is well-trodden, and everyone knows the rules of engagement. You know I struggle at least with keeping the noise levels down between the boys. Although I’m not as anxious as I was about that a few weeks ago, before some sage advice from a good friend.

Jo (and Jonathan!), thanks for taking the time to read!!

By: Jo

Jo — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 22:16:44 +0000

I enjoyed the article – thanks Pete

By: Jonathan

Jonathan — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 19:24:28 +0000

If at 2 seconds out the decibel level is at 110 what response does that register?

Good examples of the cycle of escalation. My stepdaughter and I get caught up in this cycle all the time.

If your argument ends in “Your grounded” or “I hate you.” you can probably safely assume you’re caught in the cycle of escalation.

There is some good advice in here. Folks if you haven’t read it yet, take a look!